I'm a regular observer there. The HA/GR dragster (I have one) forum has remained civil. The guys there become friends and offer lots of helpful information. It is probably that way because it is small.
On the main forum I have established some rules for myself.
1. Don't author any threads. I don't have anything new to offer.
2. If a thread gets nasty, I never open it again.
3. Don't look at closed threads because there is usually some anger component in there.
4. Don't wave a red flag in the face of the vocal, opinionated few by using "offending" words such as "rat rod"
5. Wait to offer advice, there's bound to be more experienced members chiming in eventually.
6. If I post a pic or offer advice never make a defensive response if someone makes a negative remark. Just move on.
7. Respect the fact that the site belongs to Ryan and he has the right to establish the rules and scope of the HAMB.
8. Don't get worked up about the inconsistencies. Nobody said life would be fair.
I refuse to have anger be an emotion that happens when I'm in front of a computer screen looking at pics and information about the hobby I love.
That's the beauty of RRR.[cl