Update
Yow
My bride is in demand.
There was some kind of emergency in Wyoming and the company that had already sent her a plane ticket called and postponed the meeting for two weeks
So she called the Santa Rosa folks and was truthful and told them that the Wyoming job was more money and closer to family.
They said they will hold the job for her if Wyoming doesn't work out.
I have never been pursued by an employer like they are doing with her!