Crazy, The diagram linked to by "dmw56" is a good and simple way to go. nothing I could say would do any better. In that diagram there are a couple of circuits you dont mention, but anything not in your system just eliminate. You don't need the Ford solenoid at all in your application, take it back and get your money back if you can.
Follow those very few steps and you should be home free. Run into any problems give us a holler...
Roland
Follow those very few steps and you should be home free. Run into any problems give us a holler...
Roland