I will never understand women

[sgtpontiac]

sounds like my first wife!!!!

I actually find women quite easy to understand and to get along with. Just keep throwing lots of money at them and things go really well. (Hey, it works for Hugh Hefner, look how peaceful his life is ! )

Don

A new car, a hand full of cash and a tank full of gas......she was a me me me me kind of gal....

 

[sneakysnake]

Just remember being lonely sucks,but being in a bad relationship is even worse. So dont settle for fear of being lonely and remember that all the women coming out of the woodwork were there all along you just didnt see the signs.

 

[Willowbilly3]

I actually find women quite easy to understand and to get along with. Just keep throwing lots of money at them and things go really well. (Hey, it works for Hugh Hefner, look how peaceful his life is ! )

Don

I'm pretty sure that's why I don't have one, not enough money. Besides I have a hard time respecting a woman who would go out with a guy like me.

 

[the reverend muddy grimes]

To answer the questions, The lady I am dating and I havent even kissed yet. Respect thing. I enjoy just talking to her and learning about her. The women who are now asking me out are the same ones I asked out while single but who werent interested. The quote they give goes something like "I was sure you would wait for me." I dont know. I guess im to old for bs. Gonna take this one slow and see where it goes.

 

[donsrods]

You guys know the old saying " The shorter the skirt the higher the maintenance." Whoever wrote that was a genius.

Rev, we gotta talk ! If you don't get movin' pretty soon with the moves she is going to be movin' on. Women today want action !!!

Don

 

[sgtpontiac]

Now wait a minute.......

Rev, we gotta talk ! If you don't get movin' pretty soon with the moves she is going to be movin' on. Women today want action !!!

Don

Sounds to me like she is fine with takin it slow...Rev, don't want to scare her off either.......I'm a firm believer in "what is meant to be will be"....sometimes slow and steady is the right pace....Good luck with the relationship....if it doesn't work...there is someone who is the right one.....just keep on keepin on..

 

[maverickmk]

Excellent advice Sgt.
I have 5 sisters, no brothers, have been married for over 13 years & have 2 little girls. Other than the fact that I live in the estrogen ocean, I have no better clue than anyone else my friend. Just hang in there let it go where it will, don't try to force anything. (It sounds good in theory)

 

[the reverend muddy grimes]

See guys, I have an 18 year old daughter. A lot of what I think about dating has to do with how I would want a guy to be with her. Trust me that is a radical shift in thinking from the last time I was single.

 

[sgtpontiac]

Well its really true

See guys, I have an 18 year old daughter. A lot of what I think about dating has to do with how I would want a guy to be with her. Trust me that is a radical shift in thinking from the last time I was single.

You get smarter with age.......even your kids notice it..LOL

 

[donsrods]

I have no patience.


Don

 

[sgtpontiac]

Really.....

I have no patience.


Don

Seems I've mellowed with age....have a lot of patience with everything except when I'm in the barn working on the Thing......

 

[oldmanb]

Here's my life lesson,If your first marriage went sour,second one did or almost did, it's likely not all the wifes fault. It's difficult to admit "we" can be wrong, but I'll bet in most cases we are. I studied psychology a few years back,man did i learn a lot!,Left brain/right brain stuff,feelings/emotions,gees! what a geek I've become!!!

 

[sgtpontiac]

No doubt we all have issues.....

Here's my life lesson,If your first marriage went sour,second one did or almost did, it's likely not all the wifes fault. It's difficult to admit "we" can be wrong, but I'll bet in most cases we are. I studied psychology a few years back,man did i learn a lot!,Left brain/right brain stuff,feelings/emotions,gees! what a geek I've become!!!

My first wife and I got married way to young and for all the wrong reasons....my second marriage had issues but it was all me....at 35 I felt like half my life was gone, I wasn't where I wanted to be financially, I was working at the time in a job I hated and generally I called it my Male Menopause phase...LOL...wasn't funny at the time, nearly caused me to lose the best thing in my life and my family....we actually seperated for a while...I really don't even remember what I did for those few months....it was like a haze....one day I woke up and thought "what the heck am I doing!?" called her and we started working with counselors and we worked it out and it's been 32 years now and I am grateful the Lord woke me up.....so yeah, we all have issues and things we would like to change but ultimately we need to be happy with ourselves to fully appreciate what we have and who we have around us.....I thank God everyday for my wife and family....I am blessed..

 

[busteddrum]

International Marriage Sign

 

[sgtpontiac]

Thats funny......

How true how true....

 

[Torch]

omg im sorry

muddy... i was having so much fun being the devils advocate... that i forgot to congradulate you on such a rare and beautiful find. best wishes to you both