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donsrods

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The guy who has the auto repair shop down the way from our shop just called to tell me that Mike, the guy who owned the Deli right next door to our shop, died last night of a heart attack. Mike was only 41 years old ! :eek:

He was a super nice guy, and would stop over our shop all the time with plates of food for Dan and I, when we were working there. I am in absolute shock, and sad. Mike recently sold the shop because since construction has died here his business was way off.

You just never know, day to day............:(:(

Don
 
It is a bit of a wake up call to live every day to its maximum.

I'm not really a people person, but the one guy who I might have ever called my 'best friend' died of a heart attack on 7/7/07, totally out of the blue.

I'd been up to see him the day before, everything was cool, he was happy, well set up in life, and then two days later I had the phone call.....

He was a year younger than me, just 47 at the time he died. :(
 
I had my heart attack when I was only 42 and the Doctors told me they are seeing more and more young people having them these days. Don't know if it is diet or smoking or what, but people are running into health issues earlier in life now.

It is always a shock when someone you just saw a while ago dies.......I am still in shock over this one. :(


Don
 
Don't I know it!! A year and a half ago or so, I had a rather large go around with an angina attack. It was termed at the time as a slight heart attack. This last July 1st I had a real deal heart attack with some damage to the heart muscle. Just getting over that and starting to feel good again, and out of the blue...bam. Did it again this past Labour Day. Been home for a few days now and still feeling a bit rough. Have had lots of tests and procedures done, the one's with the radio active dye (contrast) are especially fun. So like you say Don, "You just never know". All I could add would be "Live your life, likes it's you last day." With all the pills I take first thing in the morning now, I can just about skip breakfast!! I can't croak now...I just bought a used fiberglass Fiat body 2 weeks ago. It was the last big piece I needed for that project.:eek:
 
That`s sad. My Uncle had a heart attack at 49, and to have a quadtruple bypass. He`s doing good now. And a few years ago a fella that worked at a trucking company out the road from my house had a heart attack and died. He was only 32! A year younger than I am now.
 
I never knew the statistics on a heart attack until I had one. They told me 50% of the people who have their first heart attack don't survive ! :eek: I feel VERY blessed to be in the right 50%. :)

Every day is a gift, but we get so wrapped up in the little stuff in life that we forget to stop and smell the roses sometimes.


Don
 
That's a terrible story, Don. Sorry you lost a friend and neighbor.

Get well soon, Sniper. I hope you get to realise the Fiat dream. Topolino?

Life is all too short, and anything but fair. I lost my kid brother when he was only 29. My best friend, and partner at the time, left us a few days before his 40th birthday.

I better go work on something, now. I feel guilty.
 
Sorry to hear about your loss Don..41 is way too long to die....sniper, take care of yourself....hate to hear about any of you guys with health problems.....cr
 
My deepest sympathies to you Don.
As someone who's grandfather died from a massive heart attack at 59 I've been told all of my life to be watchful of any abnormalities because these types of heart conditions run in the family. I hope this doesn't sound gruesome or macabre, but what were the symptoms that made you guys realize you needed to get some help? (directed to the guys that have had problems, obviously) I've had what I would call some minor little skips (palpitations?) once in a while lately, but no chest pain or shortness of breath or any of the symptoms that are usually associated with a heart attack. I'm 45 now and this sort of thing gets my attention. I read somewhere a while back that a guy said it's like having an elephant sitting on your chest.
This has been something that's been in the back of my head since I was very young when my grandfather passed away.
Again, my apologies to anyone that may be offended by this question.
 
That's why I have no regrets if the Big Man upstairs calls for me. I married the girl I always wanted to marry and driven the cars I always wanted. I'm at peace.

However, that being said, I go to the gym 5 days a week, I don't drink and when I go out to eat, I only eat of what is on my plate. At home, we eat a lot of fish, my wife doesn't care for red meat. All my friends have big pot bellys and they always finish what is on their plate. Then they complain that they are stuffed
 
Sorry to hear about your loss Don. Sniper, I'll keep you in my prayers for a speedy recovery. I'm newly 42 years old and have lost many family members and 2 very close friends. It's a funny word "lost" because I've come to realize that people close to me who die never really leave me. I went through a terrible bout of depression when my Grandfather died. I got out of it by realizing how lucky I was to have had the time with him while he was alive and the memories I have and the lessons I learned from him. It's easy for us to say "Live like there's no tomrrow", but how many of us truly do so? I think the best thing is to implement a simple lesson I learned from my Grandfather..."Keep It Simple". Life gets complicated. I pride myself on living my life by a few simple principles...1. Honesty 2. Don't take things personal 3. Try not to make assumptions 4. never give up..always do my best.

Brothers and Sisters...may your life be full of Joy and Happiness!

-Troy
 
maverickmk, the symptoms of Coronary Artery Disease are many and varied. Sometimes they are very subtile. If you have a family history do not take any symptoms lightly. Do not wait for a heart attack. Much better to have a stress test that shows you are ok or have some treatable blockage than to ignore symptoms and suffer heart muscle damage or worse.
I have had 4 angioplasties (all failed in short order) 2 stents (same result) and bypass surgery on two occasions eight years apart. But I have never had a heart attack. That is because I have been fortunate to have symptoms that alerted me in time to take corrective action. I started this medical oddessy at age 52 (70 now) and have felt great for several years now. Was even able to return to an adult hockey league up until a few years ago.
There is a higher percentage of deaths in young people who have attacks compared to older people.The reason is that older people have had slowly developing blockage which causes the recruitment of colateral arteries. So when a major artery blocks and causes a heart attack the colateral arteries provide enough nourishment to the heart to avoid death.
I've never understood the statement of live each day like it is your last. If I knew it was my last day there woud be depression and panic.:eek:

Don, sorry about the loss of your friend. Always harder when people are young.
 
what were the symptoms that made you guys realize you needed to get some help? (directed to the guys that have had problems, obviously) I've had what I would call some minor little skips (palpitations?) once in a while lately, but no chest pain or shortness of breath or any of the symptoms that are usually associated with a heart attack. I'm 45 now and this sort of thing gets my attention. I read somewhere a while back that a guy said it's like having an elephant sitting on your chest.
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For me it's been a tightness high up and across my chest from shoulder to shoulder. Angina gives this sensation along with being clammy, sweating and often feeling a bit nauseous. First time about 8 years ago I would have swore it was the worst case of indigestion I ever had. Started about 10 in the morning it came and went all day. By evening it was getting worse with some slight pain, and a lot of pressure on my chest. (the elephant thing you mention) By 10 pm I'm in the hospital getting nitro spray and baby aspirin and an 'invitation' to be their guest for a few days in the ICU.

Second time was a year and a half ago. Much the same deal, but in a lot shorter time, like within a hour. Sweaty, clammy, weak. It hit it's peak in the doctors office this time, scared the crap out of all of them as well as me that time, considering I was there for a regular visit. Instead I got fancy and another three days in the ICU.

Heart attacks have been a bit different. July 1st, Canada day was the first one for me. (Didn't even get to see the fireworks!!) It came on fast and hard, they figure a blood clot. That one hurt...alot. Like a giant hand grabs you and squeezed your chest from shoulder to shoulder. Feels like a big hard knot in the middle of your chest about the size of your fist. Short breaths, hurts to much to take a deep breath, not to sure I could if I had to. Then the clincher, severe pain down my left arm as far as the elbow. (Felt like got punched in the bicep) stayed like that for a few seconds and travelled the rest of the way to my hand. Hand felt like it was being stabbed and leaned on with a blunt object the size of a broomhandle. Pain in the left lower jaw was next from the chin back below my ear. It was pretty apparent this one was a real deal heart attack, not angina this time. Sat in the lawnchair and relaxed best I could and tried not to panic. After three or four minutes the jaw pain disappeared, the pain in the hand and lower arm retreated as far as the elbow. Figured it was now or never, got back to the car and drove to the hospital. Sweating buckets, clammy, and nauseous along with the tightness and pain. Baby aspirin, nitro, and oxygen again. Blood test every six hours showed elevated enzymes and then a decrease back to normal indicating muscle damage. Turned out to be slight, but it's there. Whole new array of meds. (oh boy!)

A little more than two months later...I'm showing off again. Just out of the blue the heart go nuts. (Labour Day this time, got this thing about holidays I guess.) Not just beating hard, but slaming in my chest and skipping a few here and there. (I also suffer from A fib, hey if your going to do this stuff go all the way) The real violent stuff lasted for maybe a minute, and then settled down a bit with a few extra beats here and there, and a few pauses here and there, pretty much flopped around until the ambulance arrived. Then nitro, oxygen, and baby aspirin. Sweating big time, feeling sick, and very weak. Very small amount of pain in both biceps for a short time, seems to be the symptoms just about everytime after the fact. But leading up to the grand event can be just about anything as I have found out. Check out the Heart and Stroke organization and they have a whole list of symptoms to watch for, and it can be any combination from mild to severe, as I have also found out. Thing is, if you even think your having a heart attack, get help fast. Baby aspirin (two) can make a difference if your not close to help. It can buy a bit of time, but still get help. Time is muscle as they say. All those little quirky skips and jumps with your heart, and weird sensations are warning signs. It's quietly saying...pssst, hey...hey you. And if you don't listen, someday it will shout out...HEY, I'M TALKIN TO YOU!! and you get an ambulance ride. It won't hurt to be checked out, high blood pressure and cholesterol show no symptoms until it develops into a heart problem. I have both..along with the rest.
Don't know if I answered your question, but this has been great therapy for me. ;) Sniper
 
So Sorry

It is so hard to lose a friend or a family member and you have my sympathies. I lost a brother at 48 and a son-in-law at 34, both to heart attacks. I have had two stents.

The way I do the "live everyday" thing is slow down at times throughout the day and observe the beauty of God's world around me. I thank Him that I am able to do the things I can and the many blessings I do have.

And, if you think you may have a health problem, you probably do. Get it checked!

Again, I am sorry for your loss.

Lynn
 
Bottom line is that everyone over 40 should get regular stress tests. That is where they inject a dye into your bloodstream and you run on a treadmill until you are flat out worn out. They try to get your heart rate up to see if they can stress it. Then they put you in a scanner to take pictures of your heart and the dye shows where there is good flow and where there is blockage.

I had NO symptoms before I had my attack. We were at a club where my Sons were playing in a band contest. I was cheering and having a great time and started to feel indigestion. I was looking for a waitress to get a ginger ale so I could burp and my then wife (who is an RN) asked what was wrong. I told her I had some heartburn. She kept watching me and it passed. Then it came back and she asked if my left arm was hurting.........it was.

She put me in the car and had me at the emergency room in 10 minutes. I thought it was nothing, but when my Wife walked into the emergency room where I was hooked up to monitors I saw her eyes get as big as saucers, she saw bad stuff on the screen.

I was trying to make light of it and said the one of the Drs taking care of me, "So, am I going to make it , Doc?" He said, "I don't know, but we are going to do our best." :eek: Oh s***!!!:eek:

The next day I was on the operating table where they did a double angioplasty to open two clogged arteries. When I got out of the hospital I still wasn't taking it seriously and tried to overdo it by going fishing with Dan. I started having chest pains again and had to go back and have a second angioplasty done. This time I took it easy and it has held for 24 years now.

Don
 
Another thing that people can do is to take a simple aspirin or baby aspirin every day. After my heart attacks they put me on several meds and told me to take an aspirin every day. I did it for years then for some reason quit. Then I had a stroke and the Dr asked me if I was still taking my aspirin and I told him no. He said, "Well, if you would have been taking it you probably wouldn't have had the stroke !" :eek:

I have also heard of people taking a couple of aspirins at the time they were having a heart attack and it helps with the blockage sometimes.

Don
 
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