DonMan,
WOW, you read the entire thread. (thats a lot)
To answer your question, I don't think I ever said how I did the front in this thread. What I did was cut 2 rounds out of the front coils and it sits down nice.****Before you do any cutting, I want to warn you that 2 rounds is too much****(I was warned and didn't pay attention) The absolute most you should cut is 1 1/4 to 1 1/2 rounds. And any time you cut more than 1 round, You should really take the time to remove the mount on the LCA where the rubber bump stop goes. When you do that, it gives you a few extra inches of suspension travel. (That way you are not riding a "Goat Wagon")
If there is anything I can do to assist you and your son, Feel free to send me a PM and if I can't explain it here, I will be glad to help over the phone.
As far as lowering the rearend on my truck goes, If I can get it to set down level without having to pay 89.99 for a flpi kit, I am open to all suggestions and coaching.